I've found out that many gay men are super trans-misogynists!!
They simply refuse to understand/accept that we are FEMALE.
The mere fact that I am pre-op renders me MALE. Period. No questions asked. To them, your gender is determined by what you have between your legs. So penis=male, vagina=female.
Since I began referring to "that thing down there" as my big clit (thank you sir :-)) I've gotten a little - little - tolerant of its presence (
Even the thought of intersex is a no no no for them. You're either a 'penisman' or a 'vaginawoman'.
It disgusts me.
But then again, what can I do other than continue engaging them, talking to them, trying to make them see the world in a more 'queer' way ...
Gay men, be more queer!